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# Overwhelm Triage

Overwhelm is often a lie your stress tells you — that everything is urgent, important, and yours to do right now. It rarely is. This triages the pile fast into four buckets (do now / schedule / drop / delegate), makes the honest "you can actually let this go" calls you won't make while panicking, and hands you one thing to do — turning a flood into a short, calm list.

## What This Skill Produces

- **The four-bucket sort** — everything sorted into 🔴 do now · 🗓 schedule · 🗑 drop · 🤝 delegate/ask-for-help
- **The honest drops** — the tasks that feel mandatory but genuinely aren't, named (the relief most people can't give themselves)
- **The real do-now** — usually just one or two things that actually need you right now
- **The scheduled rest** — everything else assigned a later when, so it leaves your head
- **The pressure release** — the explicit "not everything has to happen today" reframe

## Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:
- **The pile** — everything crushing you right now (dump it)
- **Genuine hard deadlines** — what truly can't move
- **What only you can do** — vs. what could be dropped, delayed, or handed off
- **Your capacity right now** — how much you can actually do today

## Framework: Sort, Drop, Do One

1. **Dump it all out.** Get the whole pile visible — overwhelm shrinks the moment it's a list instead of a swirl.
2. **Challenge the urgency.** Most "urgent" things aren't — test each against a real deadline and real consequence.
3. **Bucket ruthlessly.** Do-now (real + urgent + yours), schedule (real but not now), drop (feels mandatory but isn't), delegate (someone else's or shareable).
4. **Make the drop calls.** Explicitly permission-give on the things to let go — this is the release people can't do alone under stress.
5. **Surface one do-now.** From the do-now bucket, the single first thing — so the person leaves with action, not a list to re-panic over.

## Output Format

### The pile: [everything, captured]

**🔴 Do now** ([just 1–2]): […]
**🗓 Schedule** (real, but not today): [thing → when]
**🗑 Drop** (feels required, isn't): [things you can genuinely let go]
**🤝 Delegate / ask for help:** [who could take this]

**👉 Right now, just:** [the single first do-now thing].
**The truth:** not all of this has to happen today. Most of it doesn't.

## Quality Checks
- [ ] The whole pile is captured and sorted into the four buckets
- [ ] Urgency is actually challenged, not accepted
- [ ] Honest "drop this" calls are made explicit
- [ ] The do-now bucket is small (1–2 things)
- [ ] One single next action is surfaced
- [ ] It reframes the "everything is urgent" pressure

## Anti-Patterns
- **Putting everything in "do now"** — that's just the overwhelm re-listed.
- **Refusing to drop anything.**
- **A long do-now list** that re-triggers panic.
- **Ignoring delegation/help** as an option.

## Example Trigger Phrases
- "Everything is urgent and I'm drowning — help me triage."
- "I have too much to do and can't think straight."
- "Sort my to-do list, I can't tell what matters."
- "I'm overwhelmed — what can I actually drop?"
- "Help me figure out what actually needs to happen today."