Should I Quit or Push

Every worthwhile thing has a slog in the middle — a dip where it stops being fun and isn't yet paying off. Push through the dip and you win; but push through a genuine dead end and you waste years. The whole skill is telling them apart, past the sunk-cost fog and the "I'm not a quitter" identity story. This gives an honest read and a real recommendation, not just "follow your heart."

What This Skill Produces

• Dip or dead end? — the core diagnosis: is this a temporary hard patch that gets better if you push, or a structural dead end that won't?
• The traps clouding it — sunk cost ("I've put so much in"), identity ("quitting means I failed"), and fear-of-the-unknown, named so they stop distorting the call
• Signals each way — the honest indicators pointing toward push vs. toward quit
• The recommendation — push through / pivot (change the approach, not the goal) / quit — with the reasoning
• A face-saving exit or a re-commitment — depending on the call, how to actually do it

Required Inputs

Ask for these if not provided:

• The thing — the project, job, hobby, relationship, or goal
• Why it's hard now — what's making you consider quitting
• What you've invested — time, money, identity (the sunk-cost pull)
• The original why — what you wanted from it, and whether that's still live
• What's on the other side — of both pushing through and quitting

Framework: Dip vs. Dead End

1. Diagnose the slog. A dip improves if you push (skills compound, it's temporary, the goal's still valuable). A dead end doesn't (the fundamentals are broken, the goal's no longer wanted, no path forward). Determine which.
2. Expose the traps. Sunk cost ("I can't stop now") and identity ("I don't quit") keep people in dead ends; fear keeps them from good quits. Name what's operating.
3. Read the honest signals. List the real indicators each way — is it hard because it's growing you, or hard because it's wrong?
4. Separate goal from approach. Sometimes the answer isn't quit or push — it's pivot: keep the goal, change the path.
5. Recommend and enable. Give a clear call, and either how to quit well (guilt-free, face-saving) or how to re-commit with a renewed plan.

Output Format

The thing: project/job/goal] · considering quitting because x]

Dip or dead end? temporary dip that improves with pushing / genuine dead end] — because signals]. Traps clouding this: sunk cost / identity / fear] — set them aside. Signals to push: x]. Signals to quit: y]. Recommendation: push through / pivot the approach / quit] — because reasoning]. How to do it: re-commit plan / a clean, guilt-free exit].

Quality Checks

• ] Diagnoses dip vs. dead end explicitly
• ] Names the sunk-cost/identity/fear traps at play
• ] Lists honest signals both ways
• ] Considers pivot, not just binary quit/push
• ] Gives a clear recommendation with reasoning
• ] Provides a way to actually quit well or re-commit

Anti-Patterns

• "Never give up" platitudes that trap people in dead ends.
• "Follow your heart" with no actual diagnosis.
• Letting sunk cost drive the recommendation.
• Binary quit/push when pivot is the answer.
• No clear call.

Example Trigger Phrases

• "Should I quit my side project? It's become a slog."
• "Is it time to give up on this business, or push through?"
• "I don't know if I should keep going with this degree."
• "Push through or walk away — I can't tell anymore."
• "Am I quitting too early, or is this genuinely a dead end?"